The mental abuse ... almost seen as normality...… written by the romanian writter Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
The mental abuse ... almost seen as normality...… written by the romanian writter Adrian Gabriel Dumitru
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We all look ... like nice people.
.... many of us.
Unfortunately ... maybe we are not ... what we look like.
And ... most certainly ... the difference between us is that some of us know very well to control the appearances.
In public.
Even ... in front of close friends ... or near family.
But ... not always near the life partner.
Today ... i see more and more ... the abuses ... done in continuous form.
This vicious circle ... love-hate.
... which is a weird paradox.
I see ... for example Jack ... loving his girlfriend ... but abusing mentally of her ... all the time.
And ... i know Jack quite well.
By a lifetime.
He never used to be like that with us.
Not even in kindergarten.
Unfortunately ... he is like that with Alice.
I saw that long time ago, but said to myself that maybe i don't clearly see things.
Today ... all is obvious.
For me ... for Alice ... for everyone.
Jack is indeed a nice guy with everyone from the stage of his life, but not with Alice.
In fact ... he loves her.
... but also hates her.
They have amazing connection.
Mentally ... sexually ... and on any level of their relationship ... but into one point ... the dynamic of all changes.
Yes ...
And ... not into good.
I try to understand him ... but I can't.
But ... still being my friend ... i try not to judge him too much ... asking ... "Why the hell you have this emotional balance with so many contradictory emotions while you are with her?!
Many would name you ... an abuser... but i just need to know what is really going on."
Jack looked at me surprised ... but answers ... "I believe that in duality ... i become ... duality.
That is the only real explanation which i have.
I know is ... wrong, but this is how things are happening.
I love her.
Then ... i hate her ... acting in fact like any person hating another person.
And ... all becomes obvious.
I look ... like i abuse of her mentally ... telling her ... so, so many bad things .... but the truth is that i only react.
Yes.
I react ... trying to stop her ... have that wrong personality which i dislike.
... which drives me crazy.
Yes... i've became an abuser because of her.
... abusing Alice... in continuous form.
Loving... and hating her.
All being ... confusing.
Even ... for myself."
I'm trying to understand myself.
But ... is weird to see that ... abusing of her mentally ... had become almost normality.
Most certainly ... he's not the only one from this planet ... acting like that.
Loving.
... but being toxic too ... torturing Alice all the time.
Probably ... all is karmic between them ... cause even after so many ugly episodes ... they are still together.
So ....
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