Previously, In Russia, there was a custom to show the papers to neighbors after the wedding night, as a confirmation of the girl's chastity.

And ... i also read this review about it ...

"The new wife deceived her husband by not telling him that she had sex with someone else before marriage.

This knowledge crushed the man; the inner struggle is reflected on the face of the unfortunate man. He wonders what to do: to remain faithful to his love or to get up and leave.

The wedding wreath burns your fingers, and the feeling of betrayal squeezes your heart.

It seems that whatever decision you make, the feeling of regret will not allow you to live in peace".

And ... i smile.

.... realising how much the times had changed.

Men were looking for a virgin wife ... but today there are young girls of 20 ... saying ... proudly ... that already tasted 100 men by this age.

And ... i smile again.

I go back in time ... trying to understand the so called illusory drama of this man from the painting ... and compare him with the man from nowadays.

So ... how the man from today should be painted?!

Virginity is today something very rarely.

Illusory.

Most certainly ... seen maybe just in tribes from areas of the world which were not so much under the influence of the new trends from society.

Today ... the man needs to deal with a very weird past .

For moralists ... will look as something related with xxx movies.

And ... again ... i smile ... realising how much society changed.

The trends.

So ... woman had to be virgin before marriage... but today the only real expectation is not to be into the company of a woman who has the experience of a porn star.

Maybe ... the man became ... more opened mind.

Being in fact ... into the same position as the woman.

With lots of love experiences into his past.

And the philosophical question is ... why this illusory drama?!

For virginity?!

Or ... as today ... for the number of partners?!

Well ... somehow we mix realities.

We see ... past as betrayal.

We look beyond those experiences ... and ...

So ... maybe nothing changed.

We just judge a person ... too much ... according to the past.

Not ... being able to understand ... the now.

The connection from the present moment.

Trust it.

And ... again ... i believe ... like in many other of my writings ... that the game of having connections ... which many of us ... simply... adore ... ruins everything.

Not allowing ... the story to be defined ... by uniqueness.

But ... you know why?!

Well ...

Most probably ... the first experience is always intense.

Later ... all fade in intensity ... having new and new connections.

Uniqueness itself ... can't appear anymore.

At least ... not so easy as we might think.

But ... life continues anyway.

Even if we like things or not.

We just need to accept all.

Just ... as it is.

Unfortunately ... sometimes we consider it is all ... too late.

We are ... already in love.

And ... we'll not have peace anymore.

The past ... will become like a ghost ... which not allowing us to enjoy the story.

Not even ... if it is a nice love story.

So ... the illusory drama ... like the one from the painting "Not a virgin" ... still exists ... but has another form.

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